Never ever think that the problem is you; it’sactually him. There is no perfect relationship and love is not a bed of roses either;it is a roller coaster ride. The element that makes a relationship successfulis compromise. BE that as it may, there are men who breakdown every time a problemarises in the relationship.
They proclaim it “You’re crazy.”Ever wonder why men call women crazy? More often than not, the reason whymen call women crazy is that, they just want to avoid confrontation or womendisagree with them. Nonetheless, there are deeper reasons why men label theirwomen crazy, please read on. 1.
Men want to crush yourself-esteemIn most cases, your immediate reaction to people who considers you crazyis repugnance, and then you will start thinking what have you done to deservethat label. Guys who want to overpower you use this tactic; simply because theywant to crush your self-esteem.Once you lose confidence over yourself, you will be easily manipulated.You will do anything he pleases. Gaining mastery over the art of manipulationhe can even let you feel guilty, why he called you crazy. 2. He doesn’t want totarnish his personalityJust because there are some men who hate to admit that they are wrong,they will accuse you of wrongdoing so to exonerate themselves and you will notfind out their fault.
If he is successful to influence your thoughts that youare indeed crazy or mentally ill, he will easily evade the blame. It’s you whoare hysterical; for that, people will believe that you are not mentally sane.So, don’t you ever dare believe it. Stick to your instincts and intuition. 3. He is irresponsibleThere are times when a man noticed that something is wrong with therelationship; he will start calling you insane or derange to make you look asif you are at fault.
He is doing this because he is irresponsible and he doesnot want to take responsibility for what he did. If, he is able to instill intoyour mind that you are crazy, and you believe that it is your fault; subsequently,your judgment will be tainted.4. He is Selfish Sad as it may seem, but women if your man is making all the trouble todisillusion you; then it is a manifestation that he doesn’t love you that much.What is important to him is his own vested interest. All he wanted is to be incontrol over your relationship. That is more imperative for him than yourrelationship.
Of course, you will never believe that; sad, but it is the truth.So, ladies wake up! 5. He’s trying to outsmartyouThere is plenty of power in words. If a man calls you Crazyeven just one, it will become an imprint into your personality.
Needless tosay, when he has the guts to call you nuts then, believe me all of yourfeelings and judgment will be tainted in the future. Take note if your man istalking to his friends or your friends that you are delusional or deranged,automatically they will believe him. People love juicy gossips, so be sure tostop this name-calling before the situation gets worse6. Trying to keep you quietTelling anybody that you are mentally ill is one of thesimplest and most compelling methods to silence you. If, you believe it, thenyou will hesitate to voice out your ideas as well as your emotions.
Now if he succeedsto persuade you that you are mentally ill; then the feeling of humiliation willoverpower you and thus forget to complain. This will be the best manipulationto keep your mouth shut in the future.7. He wanted you to be submissiveThe purpose of a man who is very manipulative is to dominateyou so that he could do whatever he wanted to do. He wants that everything willgo according to his will. By outwitting you and your feelings the only trustworthyperson in your relationship is him. If this happens, it is clear that his onlyfocus in your relationship is just him taking you out of the picture.If you are a woman with conviction and smart, then nevergive him get a chance to do that.
Tell him the rules of a healthy andsuccessful relationship. If by chance he will protest, then better consider himhistory.