Premarital sex is a huge problem in society today. People everywhere
are not waiting until they get married to have sex. People having sex today
are not aware of the consequences that come with having sex. They just
think it is fun and there are nothing other than fun comes with having sex.
Some people tend to have a lot of sex. They say they do it for the
satisfaction. They believe sex is fun. It is perceived to be a great thing
from the time one is young. Going to elementary school kids always talked
about the day they were going to have sex. They looked forward to it. Where
they got the idea that sex was such a great of hours. Hopefully people will
begin to look at everything they can lose from having sex before marriage.
The same goes for those who can not be monogamous. People should hold
themselves to a higher standard. If people had more confidence I believe
that they would feel they needed to have sex to impress people or to make
people happy. Sex should be a result of love and should have more meaning
than it does to some people. The entire point is sex has before marriage
has consequences. There are many and I’ve only touched based on a few. If I
were to go over every reason that sex was wrong the list would never end.
Our fathers understood that sex was a blessed experience made only for
married couples as a way to express their love and desire for each other.
However, our youths today think of sex as a fun-thing; they have the belief
that it is okay to have sex with who ever one is having a relationship
with, and youths engage in several relationships before deciding to settle
down. Yet, our fathers were right with their opinion about sex; sex should
be a blessed ordeal and not a fun thing. Youths should try and preserve
themselves for marriage, but in a situation where a person cannot hold
himself he should then try and protect himself by using a condom because of
the effect to get married and raise the baby together, but things don’t
always turn out well after the marriage; these couples may not know
themselves too well. In the event of the marriage they might find out
different sides of the opposite person that they don’t like, and they may
finally break up. This doesn’t go to the betterment of the child either
because he may end up being raised by a single parent and deprived of the
other. All these dreadful things can be avoided by merely abstaining from
sex till one is married, but when the urge to have sex cannot be overcome
then the person involved should use a condom to protect himself.